Just a quick one to say...
VOLUME IS NOT EQUAL TO DOMINANCE!
Quiet people are usually dominant. We're quiet because we have a brain and are quite comfortable with ourselves. We don't feel that social urge to placate you by responding promptly to your conversational gambit. We let you put on your 'shows' and 'fronts' whilst we work you out. Until our response comes, you have no power in that situation...
Submissive people, especially men, are often loud and (seemingly) confident...This is because they are trying to provoke a response out of you so that they can begin to quickly analyse you to make a decision based on your responses that will ensure their social safety...they chat until they get social acceptance from the majority of the group.
TO RECAP: DOMs often quiet; SUBs often loud...
And no, numbnuts... I'm not gay either!! - FemDoms; gotta love 'em!
Yes I am over generalising but quiet != submissive
POSTSCRIPT: I later became friends with said FemDom and you know, beyond the bravado and bullshit, she's actually ok - I rather like her and she isn't half as stupid as her comments made her out to be!
Thank you and goodbye
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